Why Chivalry Still Matters

To balance out my last post, I have always been an
advocate of a modern chivalry, going so far as to write a book and a
surfeit of blogs about it. Despite the fact that it is no longer a primary focus of mine, I still think it is both good and necessary.
Make no mistake, the need
for chivalry, for protection of women by men, is still very real in this
world. However, a fake chivalry that thinks its duty fully discharged
by having held the door or paid for a meal is not going to cut it. The
only solution for a crime against women like that pictured to the left,
is a real chivalry, with brains and balls, muscle and a soul of steel, and the
willingness to suffer (or perhaps inflict) violence if necessary to protect the

picture is an extreme, although not at all uncommon, example. Perhaps acid throwing and nose cutting happen only in Afghanistan or India or Timbuktu or some such
outlandish place but I can almost guarantee that on your street, right
now, there lives at least one battered woman or abused child. If you are
a public school student I can promise you, you walk past a half dozen
scenes of bullying every week. If you work in an office you probably
witness at least one or two incidents of verbal abuse, sexual harassment
or oppression a day. This is the field of modern chivalry.

of your cardboard armor “knights,” whining and complaining that no
damsel wants him to be her savior, endlessly going on and on about how
chivalry is dead and feminism killed it, they are just not up to that
challenge. Unless they stop living in a fantasy world and open their
eyes and train themselves long and hard, they never will be.

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